Do fun little things
When did you stop having fun? You may have a husband,children and a career,but you don't have to be boring !schedule in some fun time for something you both enjoy:a movie ,rock climbing,a football match.Vary what you do and make it a weekly habit.
You aren't twins
Have a life beyond the person your dating.Pegging all your happiness on your partner is putting too high an expectation of them ,Do the things you enjoyed most before you met.
Was it dancing ? Arrange a night out with the girls .Reading?Get back to it.You are in control of your happiness.
Talk and talk some more
Keep the communication lines with your partner open.Be interested in what he does and enjoys ,and he may reciprocate .If you both feel genuinely appreciated,you will be happier.
Focus on the positive
Remind your self how thoughtful he is when he checks your car engine every weekend,how patient he is when explaining how things are working and how great he is with the kids.
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